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Haitian children are finding safer homes through adoption. Are they losing their culture in the process?

 
Haitian children are finding safer homes through adoption. Are they losing their culture in the process?
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From Kansas to France, Haitian children are leaving one earthquake-devastated country and heading toward the welcoming arms of new places they will call home.

Their second chance at life is shown especially through the shy smiles and giggles of two newly adopted girls — Bettania, 7, and Dieunette, 2, who now live in Nebraska with their adoptive family, according to a recent New York Times article.
These two little girls were among the many Haitian adopted children rescued from dusty places of crumbled concrete and sent to the United States and other countries.

In France, 33 Haitian children were adopted by families and were welcomed in Paris last Friday, according to The Syndney Morning Herald.
In Kansas, 7 Haitian children were adopted recently into several different homes, according to a Kansas City news article.

What does this adoption process mean for these families?
These young children (especially those who will have no firsthand recollection of their land and language) will grow up and learn about this earthquake that shook their homes.
But will they also remember the most important part of their own Haiti — their homes?

In this case, only time can tell.

It is great that eager families all over the world are adopting these precious children who have witnesses so much in their little lives.
I admire the resilience in these children who have left the only worlds they have known and entered into foreign lands that will raise them.
I commend every single adoptive family because this will not be an easy journey.
Every day is a challenge enough for the older children dealing with their own struggles of overcoming images of family members rattling their last breath as a collapsed building suffocated them, and their stuffed animals trampled in dirt because they became homeless, too.

One of my concerns, among many, in this adoption process are the families’ ability to maintain the children’s identity, heritage and history.
I know in the process of adopting, there is another layer that must be remembered and instilled in the children — their culture.

I am sure many families will instill in these children their rich cultural backgrounds because, who else will?
It will inevitably be up to the parents to mold these little ones with a source of pride that they can identify so, when they grow up, they will never forget they are Haitian.

 
 
  • Timbankful

    “Rich cultural background?” Is abject poverty a rich cultural background? Ms. Keaton you should be embarrassed your racism is showing. Perhaps only black families should be allowed to adopt Haitian children to avoid the possibility of their racial consciousness being despoiled by white folks. Hitler would be proud of you.

  • Sean

    I’m going to ignore the first comment, because it’s utterly ridiculous, and try to reply to the article itself.
    I don’t believe it’s the responsibility of the children’s adoptive parents to preserve their cultural background.
    In the process of adopting a child, it’s important to reduce the feeling that they are foreign or different.
    If the new parents stress Haitian culture too much, they risk robbing the children of a solid identity with roots in the region in which they live.
    Basically, these children are now expatriates, and knowing Haitian history and culture–while it may be interesting or therapeutic–won’t help them adjust to and live in America or France.

  • Timbankful

    Hey Sean! OPEN YOUR EYES! Ms. Keaton is into racial purity.

  • Frank

    very thoughtful column. disregard the comments above. culture counts! it is always important to be mindful of where we come from especially when we look to where we are going.

    and timbankful, considering your first comment, don’t be ridiculous. Hitler would have been disgusted with any calls for preservation and protection of non-white culture. when you (and others) toss around the “hitler” accusation willy-nilly, it really diminishes the overall seriousness of fascism and white supremacy. giving it no meaning at all.

  • McD

    I think this is a great article. The displaced children of Haiti will inevitably struggle with identity and belonging. Many adopted children grow up and have a hard time reconciling their adoptive identities with the pre-adoptive ones they’ve left behind. However, raising these children with a strong sense of acceptance/belonging in their new cultures while validating any sense of Haitian heritage they wish to retain might make them feel more comfortable with who they are and who they will become.

  • Jacqui

    You know, I'm American of Puerto Rican ethnicity, and you know how I found out about my heritage (as little as it is)? By looking it up, myself. My parents, who were both born in PR, and did not move to the mainland until they were both 12, respectively; hardly ever talked about Puerto Rican, or the heritage. I'm not sure that this is a major concern. First and foremost, it should be the care of these children. I'm sure, if the adoptive parents take care of the basics, the question concerning the children’s — so called need to maintain their “heritage,” will take care of itself.

  • Jacqui

    Oh, and BTW, Mrs Keaton; how many Haitain children did you adopt?